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A Piece of My Mind

Here I'll talk about the things I see, feel, think and imagine, of things that are, were or could be, in hopes for people to enter my mind and we could share some thoughts...

Friday, March 17, 2006

'bout telling the truth part 2

don't cry hon'
Originally uploaded by ale_to_rro.
Yes a sequel...be afraid...be very afraid...

When we think of our friends, and the people who surround us (family or acquaintances), we think about them always in a "happy environment". We remember the good times we've spent together, and imagine the good times that are coming in the foreseeable future...

We never think of our friends, as the ones who're going to hurt us, nor the ones who are going to make us cry, friends are for the joy and the laughs...

How absolutely wrong... Friends are the ones that hurt us, friends are the ones that make us cry, and no this is no bitter post, its the truth. Our friends, if they consider to be good friends, are supposed to tell us the truth about ourselves, they're the ones who are going to make us realize if we are wrong, and that a new haircut, blouse, relationship or way of thinking its not right...

I don't know why, human beings tend to change when we are at our lowest (this I will try to analyze in another post...) but in order to change, we need to get there, and the truth is what's going to take us there...friends are the ones, why? Because we will know they're not doing this to hurt us, but just to make us better.

No one likes to hear, you're ugly.

Friends should tell us the things we don't want to hear from anyone else, we forgive our friends, but sometimes we never forgive ourselves.

If you're a friend, make sure to help your friends, even if it hurts them, even if it makes them cry, even if you think they'll never talk to you again, in the end, they'll be glad you told them the truth, and they'll keep loving you no matter what.


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